LYRIC REVIEW

Should I Laugh Or Cry:

This is one of my favorites. My code for lyric reviews is: one plus if a line seems to really help, either for image (content) or for an innovative rhyme. two pluses if both content and rhyme are positive (striking). Minus for distracting/cheap rhyme or clumsy image, two minuses for both.

+He stands towering over me beside my bed

I like this image, even though the man is later going to be described as a "small" man. In a male-female pair, the man is ordinarily bigger and stronger. (I realize that this is actually less so in the ABBA couples, but I mean on average). I take this to be a biological/Darwinian kind of thing. This size difference allows men to IMPOSE on women in a different way than women can impose on a man. I suspect it accounts for some of the fundamental differences of experience men and women have of a given interaction. And if you want to IMPOSE yourself, what better way than by taking the vertical posture, while the listener is horizontal and below you. I feel sympathy for her already.

-Losing his head

vague, and not supported by the rest of the lyrics. I suspect what was called for was something more to the meaning of "pompous." Of course, I can't think of a rhyme that gets me there, either. Tells me I must take him seriously

+Droning on the usual way

who thinks to use the word "droning", five words making a whole picture

+He's such a clever guy

perfect again, and Frida slugs us with the sarcasm. Credit where credit is due: Bjorn is ahead of his time in finding this wry female perspective, and putting it into any song.

+And I wonder should I laugh or cry

the sentiment fits; the rhyme works unobtrusively

-He's (he's) dressed (dressed) in the striped pajamas that I bought

- -Trousers too short

Alright, what gives. Is this an awkward way of saying this "philospher" looks like an idiot as he lectures her in his little pajamas? If so, did she buy these pajamas to make him look an idiot? This little detail may have come from a real life moment, but it is too obscure, and the rhyme is a reach I just don't want to hear.

- High and mighty his banner flies

Okay, lets stop laughing at the sexual innuendo here. I think the "banner" is the self-impressed philosophizing. There was a chance to maybe strengthen this a little by using "banter", but I don't hear that. Using "banner" forces a new metaphor into the song, which is not carried through. "Flies" is gonna visually connect to the "Balloon" imagery, but ugh, that's also from nowhere.

A fool's pride in his eyes

+Standing there on his toes

wonderful image, the little martinet

- to grow in size

this almost works to complete the prior thought (and make sure we don't miss the point, but so awkward.

- -All I see is a big balloon

- -Halfway up to the moon

Anyone's guess here..."airbag", "hothead", "stuffed shirt". Or are the words just full of ....nothing, floating over and away from her? Bjorn, you've lost me.

++Strange (strange) how (how) dangerously indifferent I have grown

Not so strange, really, my dear. I think the craft is in sticking in "dangerously". Bjorn succeeds here in sustaining the image of the opening stanza, same mood, same issue. Not long to go for this couple. See also: We Won't Be Going Anywhere.

-Cold as a stone

An easy rhyme. Problem is, "cold as a stone" is farther along toward the breakup than "indifferent."

+ No (no) more (more) pain where there was pain before

+Far away he rambles on

Both lines return to the image of indifference; nicely oblique, and ramble and drone are a good pair.

- I feel my throat go dry

why a physiological reaction if she is indifferent. I don't think my throat gets dry in anticipation of laughing or crying, does yours? Sounds like just a seque to rhyme with "cry" in the final line.

And I wonder should I laugh or cry......

What, you are asking, is the POINT of this exercise? It is that I don't dismiss Bjorn as a lyricist. It is that many critics have asserted that weak, biteless lyrics rendered ABBA irrelevant to the pop scene, to the point that this is taken as a fact, when they have not done the close analysis to justify their claim. So, in the spirit in which Bill James set out to study baseball, I thought to try a little study of lyrics.
Yes, Bjorn did write the lyrics of "Dum Dum Diddle." But the Beatles wrote "She Loves You."