Having chosen to listen to the music, and feel the music, I elected not to take notes during the entire performance.  From memory, here are the songs played, and the approximate order.  I am more confident in the listing for the first half of the show than for the second:

First Half:

inledningsvisa/klinga mina klocker  (Orsa Spelman)
alska mig
knowing me, knowing you (Anders)
money x3  (Helen)
dum dum diddle - (Helen and Karl Moreus of Orsa Spelman)
guldet blev til sand (Tommy Korberg)
my love my life (Karin)
The Conducator (Tommy)
Pity the child  (Anders)
ring ring (in svensk:  girls on the lead, backing vocals by the boys.  the first four person ABBA front)
mama mia (girls)
sos (Anders!)
hasta manana (four)
fernando (girls)
honey honey (and sexy too) girls sing lead in duet, backed by boys
waterloo (four)

Second Act:

anthem  (Tommy)
the winner takes it all (Tommy)
mio min mio (Karin)
One Night in Bangkok (Anders)
I know him so well (duet karin and helen)
Sunny Girl (Hep star tune)
du masta finnas (Helen)
arrival (Orsa Spelmon)

[Resurrection of A’s]

[both girls singing dual lead unless otherwise noted]
tacom
does your mother know
gimme x3
voulez vous
super trouper (Anders)
On and On and On  (all four, in pairs, Helen with Anders)
dancing queen (all four)
thank you for the music (girls sing alternate verses)

During the concert, two busy cameramen were running the floor, mostly near stage front, with videocameras on their shoulders.  These fed the images which were being displayed on the giant screen behind the stage.  Although no video of the concerts has been released or rumored, such a video probably exists.

By the October Stockholm concerts, a CD constructed from the Göteborg concerts had been burned, and could be purchased.  It is copyrighted to Mono Music and Sony Music, and is being distributed via the Columbia label as #4929352.  It offers 16 cuts, including the delicious Money, Money, Money and the awesome Du Maste Finnas.  However, the exclusion of Anders' Knowing Me, Knowing You is a pity.